Saturday 18 July 2015

The Parenting: How to Manage Differences Between You And Your Partner



The disagreements between parents about parenting are very common and, if they are not excessive, they can be beneficial for children. Of parenting styles different help - and help you - learn to be accommodating. However, you may feel very frustrated if your partner and you never seem to agree on how to raise your children.

If the differences are fundamental, it can disrupt a baby and worry about a child. You may also discover that, as and when your little grows, it will ride you against each other, which will give him too much power within the family. 

Some tips to eliminate differences of opinion between you and your partner:
  • Take time to talk together calmly when children are not around. Evoke your values ​​and ideas about parenting. What are you trying to accomplish? Discuss the positive and negative aspects of how you were raised. Discuss how you want to raise your children. 
  • Be prepared to compromise
  • Systematically avoid talking about the education of your children in front of them. It is far better to give a decision later to talk quietly and then tell your children what you have decided, you and your partner.
  • Try to recognize and accept that it's okay to have some differences of opinion. Acknowledge everyone the freedom to act without being critical. Remember that you work both for the same purpose: raise children happy, healthy and self-confident.
  • Learn about parenting: Talk to other parents, read books, etc. Parenting is a job for which there is no training, but it's almost the most difficult job of all. Many communities offer courses of parenting .
  • Finally, if you do not succeed, do not hesitate to ask for help. The more you take it, the sooner you will avoid the problems worsen. Consult your doctor so that they direct you to the appropriate family services in your area.

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